puricarexfiles: - TALKING TO LOVED ONES IN HEAVEN - As long as you are not praying TO your loved one or FOR your loved one (who needs no prayer now), but to God ABOUT your loved one, and your feelings, and your desire for them to know something, there is nothing in that which violates a Scripture. Just be careful it does not shift into anything that treats them as intermediaries or leads to obsession or seeking contact with them, which is expressly forbidden.

Talking To Loved

Ones In Heaven

Can We or Should We Talk to Loved Ones in Heaven?

By Randy Alcorn

I love this painting by my buddy Ron DiCianni, for the book we did together, Tell Me About Heaven.

As the angels carried Lazarus to Paradise in Luke 16, this is Gramps being transported to Jesus.

I’d like to address a question that came up in a blog comment.

I figure other readers might have read the question and may be interested, since I've been asked it many times over the years.

The question was, from a biblical standpoint, is it okay to talk to our loved ones who've gone on to be with Jesus?

First, would it even be possible for someone in Heaven to know what's happening on earth, and be able to hear us say anything? Many assume the answer is no.

But in Matthew 17, Moses and Elijah clearly already knew the events going on when they appeared with Jesus on the mount of transfiguration.

In Luke 15 Jesus speaks of rejoicing in the presence of the angels, not BY the angels but in their presence, whenever a sinner repents, suggesting God's people in heaven rejoice at God's work in lives on earth.

To rejoice at it, they obviously must be aware of it.

And Revelation 6:9-11 shows martyrs in Heaven who are clearly aware that God hasn't yet brought judgment on those who persecuted them, and are wondering why.

So they know some of what's happening on earth.

Okay, so if it's possible someone in Heaven could hear us, is it right to talk to them?

First, there's a huge difference between talking to someone and praying to them, and it's critical we keep that clear.

When people pray to Mary and the saints, they are calling on them as intermediaries, asking them to intervene and exercise power in this world.

There is no biblical basis for this.

Since 1 Timothy 2:5 says Christ is the only mediator between God and men, it would violate this to pray to those in heaven. We're not to pray to people or to angels, but only to God.

But would it be okay to say, "I'm not sure you can hear this, Mom, but if you can I just want to say thanks for how you always watched out for me. I love you and I'm looking forward to seeing you again and talking and having you show me some special places there."

That's talking to someone, but it's NOT praying to them, calling upon them to do something, or to exercise power or talk back.

Seeking to call up from the dead or to hear from the spirits of the departed is a forbidden occult practice (Deuteronomy 18:9-14).

But that's very different than doing what I just described.

Personally, rather than talking to a loved one, I am more comfortable simply praying to Jesus or the Father (there are biblical examples of praying to each) and saying, "Lord, would you please give my mom a hug, and tell her it's from me?"

Now I think my mom sometimes sees what's going on here and might hear this when I say it, but I KNOW God hears it.

And I trust God to do what He knows is best. Does that make sense?

I have some old friends in Heaven, Greg and Jerry among them, that I sometimes think of and ask the Lord to greet for me.

Whether He does that is His call, but my relationships with those brothers was a gift from God, and one day I'll see them again in His presence.

I suspect God is pleased with my sense of connection to them, and certainly He understands the bonds of friendship.

Jesus called us his friends. He is the best friend I've ever had.

I could see how a person speaking to their departed loved one, even if they're not violating Scripture (since they're not praying to them or calling on them), could become unhealthy or obsessive.

But that's not likely to happen when we're talking to God about them. He invites us to come to Him with what's on our minds and hearts.

Obviously your loved one is on your mind and heart.

If your child or wife or husband or parents or best friend are with Jesus, God understands your desire to feel connected to them, and to want them to know of your love for them, and that you miss them and look forward to seeing them again.

I have every reason to believe God would honor the request to pass on our warm greetings to loved ones.

But again, that's up to Him.

It's one thing to ask God for something like this, but entirely another to insist on it.

We're the creatures, He's the Creator. He's the Potter, we're the clay. (And what a privilege to be His clay, as well as his sons and daughters.)

So, bottom line to the person who asked the question, as long as you're not praying TO your loved one or FOR your loved one (who needs no prayer now), but to God ABOUT your loved one, and your feelings, and your desire for them to know something, I think there's nothing in that which violates a Scripture.

Just be careful it doesn't shift into anything that treats them as intermediaries or leads to obsession or seeking contact with them, which is expressly forbidden.

Here's a picture of my Mom at our house, holding our oldest daughter Karina. Mom died just four months after our Angie was born.

I said at both our daughters' weddings, in the summer of 2001, that I believed their two grandmothers were watching from heaven.

And since Nanci's mom had been blind her last few years here, she was seeing the wedding in a way she couldn't have even a few months earlier before she died.

I firmly believe this is true, but even if I was wrong on that point (since of course I can't know exactly when God allows people to see events on earth and when He doesn't), I would not be wrong in praying "Lord, please tell Mom her precious granddaughters love You with all their hearts and married young men that do too. That will mean so much to her."

My guess is that Mom knows all that anyway, and that she is enjoying seeing God at work in the lives of our grandchildren, her great-grandchildren she hasn't yet been able to hug.

(It's odd to me that so many assume people in Heaven are ignorant of what's going on here on earth where the great drama of redemption is unfolding—wouldn't we think they'd be more enlightened, not less?).

Still, it doesn't hurt to ask God, the Giver of special relationships.

He is gracious and understanding of our thoughts and feelings and love for the precious people He has put in our lives.

God will grant us the ultimate gift, eternal life in His Kingdom through His grace if we repent of our sins and obey His commands .

To experience God as a personal, caring, loving Father, you have to receive Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior. You will become a child of God and begin the fulfillment of the reason you were created by God.

Say the following prayer:

“Heavenly Father,

I admit that I am a sinner and my sins have separated me from You. I now want to turn away from my past sinful life and begin a new life with You. I receive Your free gift of salvation.

Please forgive me. I now receive your Son, Jesus Christ as my Savior, my Master and my Lord. I believe and confess that Jesus Christ died for my sins, was buried, and rose from the dead.

I want to receive all that Jesus Christ has provided for me as my Savior. Your Word says, ‘Whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved’ (Romans 10:13).

I believe and confess that Jesus Christ is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and no man comes unto the Father, but by Him.

Lord Jesus, I pray and ask You, to come into my heart and be Lord of my life. I thank You that you have given me eternal life, and according to Your Word, I am born again and I am now a child of God.

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of the Holy Spirit Who is in me now to help me do Your will for the rest of my life. I surrender my life to You. I promise to study Your Word – the Bible.

Use me for Your glory.

In Jesus’ Name. Amen.”

If you have just put your trust in Jesus Christ, you have been born into God’s family.

As a spiritual baby, you need to grow by feeding on God’s Word – the Bible (1 Peter 2:2).

You must have a good modern translation Bible and begin prayerfully reading it. Start in the New Testament, such as the Gospel of John or Paul’s letters to the Ephesians.

As you read, ask two questions: “What are You, Lord?” “What do You want me to do?”

Also, you need to join a Christian fellowship where the Bible is taught and where God is truly worshiped.

God bless you as you begin your new life with Him!

Randy Alcorn (@randyalcorn) is the author of over fifty books and the founder and director of Eternal Perspective Ministries.

http://www.epm.org/blog/2008/May/2/can-we-or-should-we-talk-to-loved-ones-in-heaven

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